AMELIORATION: ACHIEVING A MORE SOCIABLE ATMOSPHERE FOR WOMEN


The year 2020 had been characterized with fiendish happening’s that leave the world dumbfounded.
The pandemic that happened last year affects all aspect of human endeavors and bring nations to their
knees and even the world greatest nation. It affect the economic sector as nations resort to borrowing
money from other countries, it also affect the academic sector as students were asked to stay home and
affect their academic plans, also it affect the aviation industry as movement were temporarily
suspended and affect the basic lifestyle of everyone. The coronavirus was first detected in late 2019 in
Wuhan, China and from them it spreads to all nations of the world and bring the world into a great
mourning as presently we have 11,403,43 cases, 2,562,694 death and 91,200,273 recovered and still
counting more.
As we celebrate international women’s day celebration today march 8 2021, I want to use this
platform to acknowledge the valorous women that took it upon themselves to stand up and fight
against the spreading of this plague. Coincidentally the theme for this year international women day is
called “Women In Leadership: Achieving An Equal Future In A Covid 19 World” , celebrating the
tremendous efforts by women and girls around the world in shaping a more equal future and recovery
from covid 19 pandemic and highlights the gap that remain.
Women full and effective participation and leadership in all human sectors drive everyone forward
and bring about a new order. In the affairs of men women has played a major role in bringing about
positive changes and using their God given intelligence to bring about good and better things. Though
with this positive participation, women are still underrated in some part of the world as they are
excluded in the general affairs of men and were denied their basics right. As reveled in the UN secretary
General recent report, women are heads of state or Government in 22 countries, and only 24.9 per cent
of national parliamentarians are women.
Women are also a front runner of the battle against covid 19, as frontline and health sector
workers, as scientists, doctors and caregivers, yet they get paid 11 per cent less globally than their male
counterparts. An analysis of covid 19 task teams from 87 countries found out only 3.5 Per cent of them
had gender parity.
Some of the effective and exemplary responses to covid 19 were led by women and especially young
and vibrant girls. They led movement online and fight against social injustice, climatic change and other
important sectors and we are witnessing positive changes. Before we discuss other issues, I want to use
this opportunity to celebrate four women that took it upon themselves to curb the spread of
coronavirus in their respective countries.UN women field assistants Amal Mahayrah and Hadeel Dabaibeh: These brave women took it upon
themselves to provide urgent and lifesaving services for vulnerable Jordanian women and Syrian

refugees every day. They share important and relevant information to the refugees by giving them
psychosocial support and give them reliable information on covid 19 prevention and services. They are
involved in providing digital technologies for the vulnerable women and refugees in Jordan during the
outbreak. They also provide a 24 hour hotline for women experiencing gender based violence and also
using the UN innovative block chain cash disbursement system to deliver funds to the Syrian refugees.

  1. Yan Shenglian (China): she stands proudly behind the check point in her rural village of xiarueyao, in
    china’s northwestern Qinghai province, as people come and go from village; Yan checks their body
    temperature and records their vehicle information. Her duties are essential to reducing the spread of a
    new coronavirus, but the task are new to her: she is one of the many women without a medical
    background who have joined the fight against covid 19 in china. Yan is a pig farmer trade, and it wasn’t
    long ago that she, like many women in her village, thought taking part in public affairs was a man’s job.
    After participating in a skills training sessions in 2019, her perspective changed. As part of her UN
    women supported programme, Yan learned how to raise pigs organically, discovered how to sell her
    livestock on online platforms and received leadership training.
  2. Dr. Runa Jha: She is a chief pathologist and Director of the only laboratory authorized to conduct
    Covid 19 testing in Nepal. She and her team are testing roughly 70 samples a day, which arrive at
    irregular interval and make for around the clock work. Staying late at work had become the normal
    addition to the technical work, she also have to manage logistics, such as arranging transportation and
    food for her team. Taking care of her team became a priority for her and it all began in mid-February
    when her team was the first to enter a quarantine facility housing 175 Nepali students that was brought
    from Wuhan, China. She does her best to support the workers and boost their morale and help in
    fighting against Covid 19.
  3. Dina Smailova: Before quarantine, the helpline operated by the NeMolchi (Don’t Keep Silent)
    movement in Kazakhstan received calls mainly from survivors of sexual violence. Now, the phone rings
    10 to 15 times a day and almost all the calls are from women who were suffering from domestic
    violence. Due to the containment measures in place to reduce the spread of the virus, women with
    violent partners increasingly find themselves isolated from the people and resources that can help. She
    had provided a fee legal support for 120 women; with 47 cases resulting in rape convictions, but the
    covid 19 crises poses new challenges that worry Dina. During quarantine, the courts do not work, claims
    are not accepted, abusers are not isolated, and women have to continue living with their abusers.
    Despite the dire circumstances, Dina continues to push for justice and policies that better protect
    women.
    These women out of love they had for people volunteer to bring about a better change during the
    time of covid 19. Though it might not be easy for them, as they might face some challenges and
    difficulties but they were persistent and determined to curb the spread of coronavirus. There are also
    countless women out there that are making positive changes in their society. These are women to be
    remembered and celebrated for the role they played in curbing the spread of the virus.

As we are celebrating the international women day, it is imperative to know that despite the good
actions performed by women in our society and the positive effects they had in our present society, in
some parts of the world there are still gender discrimination against women, girls not allowed to go
school, girls trafficking and sexual abuse. Though there had been a lot of actions taken to bring this to
an end but still it is getting more rampant daily and which signify that there are still more work to do.
GENDER DISCRIMINATION
This act is still recognized in some parts of the world like the Arab world. They see women as an
inferior creation. They perceive them to be less active and unable to possess the required skills. They
were denied their basics right such as right to vote in some countries, right to work, right to drive and
right to hold any political office. According to a statistics, 143 out of 195 countries guarantee equality
between women and men in their constitutions as of 2014, yet discrimination against women persists in
many areas, directly and indirectly through: law a and policies, gender based stereotype, social norms
and practices.
This led the UN to create a single UN body tasked with accelerating progress in achieving gender
equality and women empowerment in July 2 2010. The Body is called UN WOMEN, and since its creation
it has been working effortlessly around the globe to bring about gender equality. This is a challenge to
everyone as we celebrate international women day that we should all join the fight against gender
discrimination and bring about change in our society. As we celebrate todays women international day
;let us think about what we can do or contribute to help our society grow and end gender
discrimination.
GIRL’S EDUCATION
There is also this belief and mindset in peoples mind that young girls don’t deserve a western
education. They believe they will end their life in the kitchen and taking care of their children, so they
don’t deserve to go to school. And this has denied millions of young girls around the world western
education. According to statistics 132 million girls are out of school, including 34.3 million of primary
school age, 30 million of lower secondary school age, and 67.4 million of upper secondary school age. In
countries affected by conflict, girls are more than twice as likely to be out of school as girls living in no
affected countries.
Note that girls who get a complete education are likely to be successful and better prepared to
enter into the workforce. Education for girls will give them more opportunity to stand up for their own
right and fight against gender discrimination. They will use the platform and the opportunity to see what
is needed to be done in the women’s world that will enlarge their influence, also giving girls a quality
education will reduce gender inequality and put a stop to child marriage or girls trafficking. It will ignite
the passion in other young girls to go to school therefore reducing girl’s illiteracy. There is still a major
rise in girls lack of education in Countries like: South Sudan, Afghanistan, Niger, chad, Mali and Burkina
Faso etc.
GIRLS TRAFFICKING AND SEXUAL ABUSE

This is a case whereby young girls are compelled to labor work. They are shipped all over the world
to work for money and as a result of that they are subjected to sexual abuse and rape. Most of these
victims find themselves in coercive or abusive situations from which escape is both difficult and
dangerous. In 2012, international labor organization reported that 20.9 million people were subjected to
forced labor, and 22% (4.5 million) are victims of forced sexual exploitation. The ILO reported in 2016
that of the estimated 25 million persons in forced labor 5 million were victims of sexual abuses.
The insider monkey report about the girl trafficking that Bangladesh has the highest rate of human
trafficking with about 800 legally recruitment agencies where they traffic young girls. Also it report that
Ghana, Uganda, Sri Lanka, India, and Haiti have an extremely high rate of women and children forced
into prostitution, free labor and begging, the case of Thailand is severe because children are not only
forced into prostitution, but also shipped all around the world.
These are issues that need urgent intervention. As we celebrate international women’s day it is
imperative to know that there women out there that are subjected under sexual abuse, trafficking and
gender inequality, so let us come together more than before and fight against this so as to make the
world a more better place
In conclusion I want to use this medium to make references to some women that have make changes
and are still making in our generations such as: Harriet Tubman, Tarana Burke, Oprah Winfrey, Rosa
Parks, Wangari Maathai, Maya Angelou, Janelle Monae, Angela Davis, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Ngozi
Iweala, Lavere Cox Beyonce, Serena Willians, Wilma Rudolph, Marsha P. Johnson, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf
etc. These women had made a change in their various aspects and put an end to inferiority complex.
They open the door success for women.
I end with a quote from Phumzile Mlambo Ngouka ,the UN Women Executive Director That Says:
“There is a role for leadership and legislators to make violence against
women illegal and to punish offenders. Many countries already have
appropriate laws in place, but they are not fully enforced. That has to
change. States have a primary role to play in implementing current laws and
conventions and in introducing new legislations where it is lacking.”
REFERNCES: WWW.UNWOMEN.ORG, WIKIPEDIA
WRITTEN BY ADEBAYO PHILIP MARSHAL
08149942420
BOLUWATIFEADEBAYO161@GMAIL.COM

Feb 14th Valentine or Valentineless:The Need For Sexual Purity


Every year during the month of February, millions of people around the world exchange cards,
flower and other romantic items on a celebration called Valentine’s Day. During this celebration, couples
go out on dates, lover’s share an intimate time together; friends and families exchange hugs and spend
quality time.


The greeting card association estimates that approximately one billion valentine cards are sent
each year. The US national census calculates that Americans consume nearly 3.5 million tons of candy
annually and a large portion of this is purchased for Valentine’s Day.
According to the floral index, 110 million roses are sold in the US on Valentine’s Day and
American spends 180 billion on gifts alone. The same thing is practiced in all nations of the world
The celebration of valentine began many centuries ago from the Roman Catholic. Though there
had been different speculations and views about the true history of valentine, what led to the creation and
the true purpose of which it was created? But I am not going into any history. The celebration of
valentine was created by the Roman Catholic for the main celebration of love. But the word love had been
misconnected nowadays and used in another form by engaging in pre-marital sex and which is against the
law of sexual purity made by God. But first let us examine the definition of Love.
WHAT IS LOVE?
As you already know that love is a general factor and a public one, so people get there different
definition. According English oxford dictionary “love is a profound and caring affection
towards someone or a feeling or intense attraction towards someone.” If you
would ask another person about love they might answer that love is having a sexual attraction to someone.
According to a friend of mine he said “love is the higher level of like. It is being
attracted to someone without any reason.” This shows that different people have their
different opinions about what love means and that will determine how they will respond to it.
But according to the word of the Lord of which we are going to use it as our principle to follow
says:
1 John 4;7
“Beloved let us love one another; for love is of God and every one that
loveth is born of God, and knoweth God”.

The season of valentine has opened the eyes of the nowadays youth to romantic feelings and
practices. It has serve as an avenue whereby people can engage in sexual immorality and do all activities
that is against the will of God.
The new testament for all sexual conduct outside of a heterosexual marriage pre-marital sex,
adultery homosexual sex, incest, bestiality etc. is sexual immorality e.g mark 7;20 -23. Let us examine
just one of them, pre-marital sex and what studies have to say about its consequences.
Depression and suicide attempt
A center for disease control and prevention CDC reports revealed that teenagers who remain
abstinence are healthier on many front than their sexually active peers. Another analysis from the heritage
foundation fund that sexually active teenage boys and girls are much lee likely to be happy and more
likely to be depressed and commit suicide compared to teenagers who aren’t sexually active according to
the report the most likely explanation for this is that early sexual activity leads to emotional stress and
reduces happiness.
Sexual regret
Furthermore the CDC report discovered that a majority of sexually active teenagers
experienced regret over their first sexual experience and wished they had avoided it.
This doesn’t just affect teenagers. Similarly results are also seen in young adults. A study by the
society for the scientific study of sexuality revealed that regret over casual sex has been associated with
psychological distress. Like loss of life satisfaction, loss of self-worth, depression and physical health
problems.
Pre-marital sex: poorer quality of marriage
The consequences of pre-marital sex spill over into marriage as well. The US-based national
marriage project found that men and women who had sexual partners other than their spouse, experienced
lower quality in their marriage. Furthermore, the more sexual partners a woman had before marriage, the
less happy she would say her marriage is.
Abstinence: better quality of marriage
The opposite is true: those who reserve sex for marriage are more likely to enjoy marital
relationship. A journal of family psychology study compared couples who had sex in the early stages of
their courtship who waited until marriage to have sex, and it reported that the latter group experienced
higher relationship stability
As a kid in primary school or high school, during the time of this celebration they would be
asked to bring a gift to school on Valentine’s Day and asked to pick an opposite sex as partner and share
the gifts brought. This also happens at church. This has exposed young boys and girls to what is far bigger
than their age and which take them deeper in sin. Being a young person, they have misused the
opportunity and see it as a normal thing to be done. Unmarried couples see this time as a means to engage
in pre-marital sex .it is now an avenue to celebrate their love together.

Dating and pre-marital sex has been the order of the day and the celebration of valentine has
been an instrument in promoting this concept and making it seems as a normal thing to be done, and
through this the law of being sexually pure has been despised and rejected.
Sexually pure is a law from God to all youths who desire a brighter future. It is a necessity for us
to abstain from sexual immorality or any acts that can defile us or make us unholy.
We are therefore commanded to flee from any appearances of evil, so anything that we perceive
to be ungodly should be taken far away from us. To be sexually pure is a honor unto God and respect unto
us.
Sex is strictly permitted only between husband and wife not between boyfriend and girlfriend.
But as a result of the lustful feelings that have dominated the world right now, it has become a normal
thing.
Valentine is a celebration of love not the celebration of sex. Love cannot be found through
ungodly intimacy, it is only through a personal relationship with God. Women should be aware and
sensitive during this period because it was during this period of valentine that some ladies will lose their
pride for the sake of love not knowing that love cannot be found through sexual relationship. Love is God
says the bible love is an action words not just some feelings or emotions.
There has been this mentality among boys and girls to make sure to always look out for girlfriend
and boyfriend on this particular day.
Love is to be shown by our lifestyle towards people around us as Jesus Christ showed us love by
his death for our sins and that is the greatest love ever shown. That love was not characterized by feelings
or emotion but by action.
The celebration of valentine should be done in a moralistic manner that glorifies God. It should
be celebrated with the needy and the poor. We can choose to go out to the less privileged and donate food
items to them and show them love that they have not experience before and give them a hope of a brighter
future and also we can choose to improve our community by doing something beneficial for them, and
then that is the real expression of love not by going to club or engaging in sexual relationship.
There has been a misconception today about the difference between love and lust. There is a clear
difference between this two because God is love and Satan is lust so it depends on what you feeling.
The characteristics of lust is full of things against the will of God such as; pre-marital sex,
kissing. Romance, gay, lesbian and other demonic acts and this are what is mostly practiced nowadays
and they perceive it as the celebration of love
“1cor 13:4-8 says love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love
does not parade itself, is not puffed up love does not behave rudely, does not
seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil does not rejoice in iniquity, but
rejoices in the truth bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things. Love never fails, but whether there are prophecies, they

will fail; whether there are tongues they will cease whether there is
knowledge it will vanish away. vs13; and only abide faith, hope, love, these
three but the greatest of these is love.”
This above passage signifies the truth type of love that should be seen and practiced today. This is
the word of the lord that God has given us to follow and The Bible says “Sanctify them by your
truth thy word is truth.” This shows that the word of the lord is truth and well established
because Jesus is the word itself (John1;1-14)
Below are the factors I think if applied well will curb the spread of sexual immorality and bring
about the awareness of the sexual purity.
There should be awareness about the celebration of valentine day. The creation of Valentine day
by the roman catholic is not about engaging in sexual immorality, it was created for the celebration of true
love i.e. love towards one another. There should be this awareness for this present generation. Almost
every church always hold a special service on this valentine day, this is an opportunity for them to teach
those presents about the true celebration of love. But it is a pity that churches now allow those lustful
activities to be practiced and which is against the will of God.
They should use that opportunity to expose those young girls and young boys to the hidden truth
and explain to them the true love which is God. The celebration of love should be according to the creator
of love. God is love and he is the creator of love. The bible says that” for God so loved the world
that he gave his only begotten son for us that whosoever believeth in him
shall not die but have everlasting life” this is the greatest love ever shown to mankind.
There is no love greater than this.
Furthermore the parents should also input into the life of their children the teachings of sexual
purity and its importance. As a parent God had delegated some duties to them to perform over the lives of
our children. They have the duties to inculcate into the lives of their children some norms and morals that
are needed for them to live a fulfilled life.
They should teach them to be sensitive and not be foolish enough to allow them to be defiled by
any man through valentine’s celebration or any other means. The family has a major role to play in the
life of a child in helping him/her make some major decisions that will determine how his future would be.
Lastly the youth also should abstain from any lustful feelings and activities and be filled with the
word of God and be a real follower of Christ. As Paul wrote to timothy in 2 timothy2; 22 that:
“Shun youthful lusts and flee from them, and aim at and pursue righteousness (all that is
virtuous and good, right living, conformity to the will of God in thought, word, and deed) (and aim at
and pursue) faith, love, (and) peace (harmony and concord with others) in fellowship with all
(Christians), who call upon the lord out of a pure heart.”
This a an admonishment from Apostle Paul to his timothy, telling him as a youth to flee from
lustful activities that are characterized with youthful age. Because this things are trap for a brighter future.

It is the intention of the devil to destroy and nullify the plans of God for our life by creating a lustful
atmosphere that will affect us negatively .These should serve as a guiding tools for all aspiring successful
youth.
In conclusion 1Cor 6:15-16, 18-20:
“Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then
take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God
forbid. What? Know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body?
For two, saith he, shall be one flesh.
Vs18: flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body:
but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What?
Know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you,
which ye have of caused, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a
price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are Gods”.
This season of valentines should be celebrated in a way that please god and glorify him. Visits
the needy or the orphanage home. Show love to everyone. Let the love of Christ abounds and spread
through us. God bless


Reference: http://www.wholelife.sg by Raphael Zhang
Written by Adebayo Boluwatife a.k.a Mr. Marshal
0819942420
(Sexual Purity Advocate, Content Writer, Political Analyst And Human Rights Activist).
Boluwatifeadebayo58@gmail.com

Changing of perceptives

Sometimes it got me thinking why our challenges and problems in life gets more difficult and complicated every day🤔🤔🤔.

Despite all our struggles and effort to get a solution to it but still no way out.🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

But wait!! Something came to my mind immediately I was thinking about this thing.

And the thing is called “Perspective”.

I have found out that our perspectives about something’s in life determine the way we will react to them.

So I got the point that The challenges tarry because we are having a wrong perspective about it.

We are approaching it with a wrong mentality and view which is making it more difficult and complicated.

So breathen, don’t let us waste time on it again.

Get a different view or perceptives about that problem and see it as a finished work of Christ.

You don’t need it to allow it to bother you.Get up, eat, take your bath, dress well and go out and relate with people with joy and laughter.

Just have a change of perceptives about it.

Adebayo Philip
08149942420

Breakfast at my House

During the week we’re often walking out the door with a coffee in one hand and slice of toast in the other, but on weekends breakfast is never rushed. It’s a late affair, sometimes spilling over to lunch, with lots of reading and chatter in between courses of fruits, poached eggs, honey and toast. One of our favorite things we like to serve when friends are visiting are buckwheat blueberry pancakes.

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